Originally Posted by
Jewelie 
What can I do to help him?
Welcome to SR.
The best thing you can do is make sure you look out and after yourself first. We have a ability to bring those that love us down too. Don't let this happen to you. Don't let yourself get lost in his addiction.
At the end of the day we have to help ourselves. No one can do it for us.
There is also the family forum as well you will get tons of info and support on that forum too. You can post in both forums
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