castlefan
Sorry you drank, but you, in no way made things worse for the OP!! You provided very good advice. As hard as it is, please try not to take some of the responses people will give you personally. I think it has a lot more to do with the person making those negative than the well-intentioned person trying to help. We're responsible for our actions, not others. I hope you can move past this (and stop drinking), and keep offering suggestions. Have a good evening.