Originally Posted by
biminiblue 
Having an objection and "wanting her to want this for herself" are two very different concepts.
Of course you are within your rights to have any beliefs you want.
You are not in your rights to tell your girlfriend or anyone else how they "should" feel on any subject - at all.
Sadly I'm hearing this enough now to think it may be the case. Maybe we are just too different. It hurts because I love her so much, regardless. But its certainly a thorn in my side