I guess I was lucky in one sense that all my relationships were ancient history by the time I got sober.
I reckon it must be very hard to deal with the resentment and the self pity when those closest to us drink.
The only thing I can tell you is...I grew to love my life sober. I came to prefer it.
What other people do or drank mattered to me less and less
I hope you guys can get there too
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