NL
So sorry to hear about your dog. I know how precious they are. Give him lots of tender care and hope for the best !
Grace and Rochele
It must be tough to see your other half merrily drinking away. But you're right in focusing on your own recovery and not to mind what they do. Maybe explore the reasons for your resentment, separate it from the object (ie, your DH) and delve into the what and why the resentment arises. Just my two cents !