Hi Friends. I had a really tough weekend but I didn't pick up.
We decided to go visit my brother and his family for an overnight yesterday. My brother was actually stuck out of town, but his wife is like the sister I never had so it was not weird. Anyway, my husband began drinking at 6 p.m. and was still nursing a beer when I turned in at 11 p.m. It really got to me. My SIL had a glass of wine with dinner and stopped as she always does. It just enraged me that my DH sat and drank all night. He usually waits till our young kids are in bed, but I guess he was in vacation mode. I just thought it was obnoxious and rude.
I am struggling with whether to say anything to him. As my personality profile highlighted, I avoid conflict. And I know that my recovery has to be about me. I just felt so angry at him last night. Is that wrong? Should I be able to shake it off? I am having trouble knowing whether my hurt is justified or not.