Not EXACTLY the same since I am still with RAH but a Bizarre Thing I Am Grateful For In My Life Since Starting Recovery/Firm Boundary Setting (
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I am grateful that by separating my finances 100%, I can relax & trust that my bank account & credit card account balances won't change without me knowing about it because I am the only one with access to withdraw, charge or check account information. I know this must be so basic to a Normie, but I LOVE always knowing exactly how much I have in the bank & that nothing is bouncing!