Hi Thotful,
Doesn't it just burn a Codie when people don't see what we are sacrificing for? You chose to close yourself off from a segment of your family to support the one they abused - correct? Welcome to the high road. Once you catch some elevation people forget about your cause and you should be too winded to speak.
If I am insulting you - please know I have a lifetime of high roads and should be a mountain goat by now.