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Old 05-21-2014, 08:14 PM
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LoveMeNow
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I am sorry but I respectfully disagree. This isn't a "he didn't do all his homework" situation.

I can understand why you want him to go but for me, getting honest with myself was part of my own recovery and healing.

A girl I know went to a 3 month rehab for her crack addiction. She has been crack free (but still smokes pot) for about 5 yrs. She told me.....her thinking was the entire first month... I just need to clean up so I can control my use again. By the 3rd month, she understood the insanity of her own thinking. I read that a lot and now can understand why a lot of people fail after going to a 28-30 day program. It's just not long enough.

IMO, be prepared for when he gets home or even on the trip.

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