(((gracey))) - thank you for your thoughts!
(((magic))) - i know, i know, i know. i am at work today and i have turned it over. i usually don't interfere when it comes to health issues - never made his drs. appts., usually don't pick up prescriptions, etc unless i am going to that store anyway. but the life threatening stuff concerns me so i felt i had to say something to him. what he does with it is out of my control.