The girls therapist has been amazing and is incredibly helpful BUT there was a case that went to the State Supreme Court here several years ago where a therapist ended up on trial essentially for testifying for one parent over the other. So, the therapists in my state now refuse to testify in any way at all without a court order demanding it.
That said she is writing an impact statement for DCYF and with the information I shared with her today about this my HOPE is that DCYF will be able to get the court to order that the therapist testify. It carries FAR more weight to have someone other than me demanding that so my fingers are crossed.
I can imagine the words in your mind Lillamy bc they're in my mind too.
He has used the girls as pawns for many years in much less blatant ways, but this just takes the cake... And my poor poor 6 yr old is without a doubt totally traumatized by this and I am struggling more than I can describe to keep it together and not just leave work and get her from school and take off and disappear (with D8 too of course)