I like the attitude the two of you have regarding this step. For me, I have a better relationship with God but its a work in progress. I dont like giving up control even though I have learned that the more I focus only on my side of things not only the greater peace I have, but the better my relationships are.
I still at times struggle with old teachings and attitudes regarding God so I almost feel as if a relationship with him can only be all or nothing. I am certainly open to learning more and looking to all who are willing to share their beliefs and experiences. That is a big change for me. I have often been an all or nothing kind of person. This particular step will be one I come back to reread for inspiration.