Just hitting another big breaking point with all of that myself. Never spoke up or made a fuss as a kid, was the typical family "mascot" just trying to overachieve and keep everyone happy. Stood up for others a lot but did not stand up for myself at all. Got better about this in my mid-20's, but still had plenty of room for improvement. My difficulty in asserting myself caused problems in my personal and professional life. And right now I'm so sick of all of it. I'm drawing some really visible lines in the sand.