You don't want to start off your life with an addict. And unfortunately, Florida, for whatever reason, is a breeding ground for H use. Not sure why, but that is a fact. No offense to my FL friends, it's just the facts.
You deserve happiness with someone who is honest and treats you with respect and kindness.
Listen to him when he says it's not working. You cannot nag someone into sobriety.
I am sorry!