Welcome Perfume!
SR has been a great outlet and resource for me for a year now. There are lots of threads tagged above with excellent info and there's almost always someone here if you have insomnia like me.
Well it's hard to tell users what to do. I left mine alone when he went cold turkey. It was his decision after seeing his MD and trying to get into a local rehab with no success. I was sort of sick of all the drama though and was emotionally numb and under-reacting just to stay functional.
I hope things go OK.