The biggest problem seems to be the counselors we've talked to so far aren't who we need to be with -- their viewpoint. I'm spreading the net further and revisiting paths I've already gone done. I've asked for referrals, some haven't had any and others were dead ends. Rehab clinic didn't have much; already gone there but I'll try again. Maybe someone else there will have another connection.
Trying to find someone who can help with Avoidant/AnxietyPD plus addictions. I'm not narrowing it down to that -- keeping very open minding, but I'm starting to get how those who aren't experienced in both these areas could be leading me or AH in directions that are counter-intuitive to what we need. Already experiencing a bit of that.
Getting on more waiting lists and leaving more messages. AH isn't ready yet, but I am so very ready to keep working on me and having some professional guidance.