for the warm welcome. I've been browsing several different threads here and am learning a lot. It's nice to know that I'm not alone in dealing with this. A big part of me is afraid to confide in anyone I know because I know their advice would just be "divorce him" and that's not what I want. Deep down I know I can't fix him and he has to want to do it for himself, so I plan to support him the best I can.