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Old 05-12-2014, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Bullfrog View Post
I believe that he is truly sober. However, the verbal/emotional abuse and blame towards me is crazier and more intense than it's ever been. In his eyes, my departure and "destroying our family" was the ultimate betrayal. [Typical example: I woke up to 10 texts on Sunday morning telling me that I needed to know that I was a bleeping "disgrace" of a mother and should not be honored on Mother's Day. Oh, and God is displeased with my wickedness and treachery and my day of reckoning is coming. Seriously, just a normal day of communication from him.]
Maybe it's just me, but I wouldn't use the word "sober" to describe what he is now. Abstinent, maybe, but not sober.

I'm curious, was this a mandated rehab program, or did he go on his own?
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