It took me a long time not to take relapses personally....
I remember what it was like - it was terrifying to think of life without alcohol, and terrifying to think of how much I would have to change.
But...I had to if I wanted things to be different.
If you guys want that too - and I believe you both do - then there's nothing for it....you're gonna have to add to what you've been doing.
Got any ideas on what you might do Jim or Babs?