Welcome FinallyReady
I'm glad you're up to the challenge of serious change because generally I think that's what we need.
I found myself a 40 year old man living the life of an 18 yo one.
It's not a good look, and I don't just mean that appearance wise.
For all the stresses and strains,there's a lot of good things about being a responsible adult
It feels good to be the authentic me again - I'm sure you'll find the same - and I know you'll find a lot of support here
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