iamthird---this man just doesn't have what it takes to be your life partner--if a happy life is what you want, that is.... I think in a weird, semi-twisted way....he did you a favor, today, by reminding you of this. Wouldn't it be harder if he had been all puppy-dog sweet while you were moving out of the house?! As Mic Jagger would remind us--"we don't always get what we want...but, sometimes, we get what we need".
As Seren said---being in your new place will provide for some rapid-phase healing.
Enjoy your new home and savor that the best times are yet to come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dandylion