That sounds like an awful day. I'm so sorry he treated you that way, and I agree with LoveMeNow--He has shown you again why you left in the first place. You've taken very big steps towards living your life independently from him, and yet as codies, we sometimes let our guard down and get stuck in the temporary illusion that a small dose of our A, for the right reasons (helping you move and seeing where your daughter will live), could be beneficial.
It takes time to instill our boundaries, but you have so many reasons to be proud of yourself right now. I would look at this as an opportunity to think to yourself, I tried letting him in, it didn't go well, and I won't do it again under the same circums.tances. Big HUGS