asm---thinking back on all of my relationships....for me....once I lost that lovin' feeling...it never returned.
I do think that when we have that romantic feeling about someone....we admire them enough to have them on a "pedestal" in our minds...all special and wonderful. When their actions have gone against us and hurt and disappointed us enough...that pedestal gets toppled. Once that happens....for me, there has been no resurection possible.
This is the way I look at it. I kind of think about it like an egg that has been scrambled---can't go back to the origional form.......LOL...like Humptey Dumptey!
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