Good morning Banana and alcohol.....Yes we can have it all, it does take work though as it takes work to raise children, take the time to go get our alcohol, or even taking the time to plan out when to drink. I am very glad both of you are here. The Key for me is to let people know how I am feeling, remembering what got me here, and again, talking to people.
It may seen tough at the beginning which it is, it almost like looking at how long it took us to get where we are today, we cant completely change things in 2 night or 6 days....it will take longer and it's so beautiful as each day rolls by and the restless nights subside and out attitudes start returning to sanity!
Just a little about how I felt, hope it helps and I hope both of ya give it another go at sobriety. You can REALLY have it all!!!
Matt