Tetra: You choose to tell who you want to tell about your situation. If you don't feel
comfortable telling a person you just met, I wouldn't. It would be like me telling a
person that I have just met that I can't go by bright light because I just had Lasik done
to my eyes I wouldn't say anything until I was put into a situation of bright light. Even
then, I could just look away
In this day and age we as woman have choices. We choose the restraint, we choose the evening and time, we can choose our choice of beverage. Good luck!!!