I guess time will tell how things work out for us but I did ask him to move out and he is leaving saturday. I feel bad but he hasn't felt bad about my hurt over the last few years. Constantly ignoring my needs and wants.
His out patient therapy starts in two weeks. Hopefully he follows through with it and goes. If not it will make my decision easy. Which is my next question...if he would follow through and get sober how many times does one deal with relapses? Chances are it will happen and I already feel like I am at the end of my rope...would it be unfair for me to say ok we will work on this but you slip up and I am done? Doesnt seem very nice to me but I cant relive the past again.