Originally Posted by
POAndrea 
He is confused and hurt when I do not return his affection (And another thing: I swear to G-d if he tries to put his hands on me one more time I'm gonna snap them off at the wrists and shove them up his... anywho, moving on) because he honestly thinks we are still emotionally connected somehow. And that just blows my mind!
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This is EXACTLY how I feel with my husband. Just don't touch me, leave me alone and PLEASE don't ask for sex! We are not and have not been connected enough for that. It would just be sex...not love.