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Old 05-06-2014, 12:09 PM
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LoveMeNow
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Originally Posted by Katiekate View Post
Hmmmm I see absolutely no compassion here for you or him.

For me learning compassion was the key to my freedom.

Its so much easier when you don't have to blame anyone,

I accept that I am powerless over addiction of any kind, and I accept that my xaddicit is too, and sadly he will continue to suffer without even knowing, but I wont because I have chosen to let him live his life in the style he sees fit, and I am allowed to do the same.
Compassion for him and "his disease" has kept me hooked. Forgiveness and compassion are necessary but at the right time during my journey. Right now, I feel mad and I am OK with that.
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