Originally Posted by dandylion

Liz....if there ever was a message from the Universe that you need to work harder o n your SELF.....this is it. Cut this new guy loose----he has got to be trouble---he knows that you are married and is just using you to feel good about himself (as the bottom line).

Your husband doesn't care about you (according to your posts) and this guy doesn't care about you (in my opinion).

You are the only one who can truly care about you in this picture. Your happiness does not hinge on either of them. It rests squarely on you.

I am being blunt--but, this is exactly what I would tell my own daughter.

I hope that you talk this over with your sponsor and therapist.

dandylion