Glad to hear the weekend went well! Im sure it made your DD's a little bit more comfortable with him. You did a great job with self-care and remaining neutral with the kids! My STBXAH is the same and will sober up when called on it for a week or so and then right back. Its a constant battle and I can see this is likely how our visitations will go. I appreciate you sharing your experience! It is so helpful to me. It helps me to plan for the future and gives me ideas on how to handle things when they arise. My AH is being served next week after my DD's first communion at church and party this weekend. (I didn't want to ruin it for her so it's filed in court but waiting to be served). Congratulations on your DD's confirmation! You definitely sound strong and happier! Keep up the great work.