Thats a tough one, I guess you just have to decide if being around him is worth whatever pain its causing you that you feel resentment about. I am still early in my recovery, 10 weeks, and I find I have very little patience for others actively drinking, including neighbors, family, etc. I try not to be judgmental, realizing that I was on the other side myself, and I guess that in itself is progress. But for me, I give myself a pass on this one, and choose to be a little more picky about my relationships, as part of my early recovery. Maybe when I have some more time under my belt, I can be more understanding. good luck.