Hello PlasticINsanity. Welcome!
Congrats on your five months clean! I am happy for you. and I am glad your niece has you to watch out for her. I hope your sister can see what you are doing , and what you have and that she will see what she needs to do for her and for her daughter.
Lovenjoy said it so well. I could not add to that, but hope you will stay and that you find answers . there is much experience here at SR, and so many nice people.
Prayers for your family.
chicory