dandylion, I think this is very true. Women and men are perceived very differently, and the label "emotional" has a negative connotation, especially for women.
In my experience, logic and rational decision-making have gotten me farther than emotional outbursts in most situations. But at the same time, my emotional outbursts have served important purposes: they've shown that I *do* care, that I *am* vulnerable and that I need help and support.
I agree with FeelingGreat: in my situation, I've had to balance logic and reason (and the "tough" attitude that goes with them) with honestly expressing my emotions. So many people have seen me cry over the past month...yet those same people praise me for my strength and courage when it comes to making hard decisions.