I was in that position a couple of times in early sobriety, I remember over hearing things like the chapter that you read and feeling hurt, then angry. I was really sensitive about stuff like that, took everything personally.
At this moment in time you need her to get you sober so you must, must talk to her about this next time you see her. Don't let your head get in the way, talk to her about it! That's what I had to do and I was mostly pleasantly surprised by the feedback.