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dSober I still don't. According to Webster's:
sec·u·lar adjective \ˈse-kyə-lər\
: not spiritual : of or relating to the physical world and not the spiritual world
: not religious
I'm afraid I don't see how step 3 can work with this. I tried for years. In retrospect, I worked around it and stopped drinking for short periods but could never feel stopped, feel like the obsession had been lifted, until I finally bought into step 3 as it is written in the Big Book.
Aside from step 1, parts of steps 4 and 5, and step 10, I too fail to see how a secularist can practice the 12 steps in any meaningful way.