Originally Posted by
chicory 
Hello Ligy. Perhaps it won't be too difficult, as you already mentioned it to him before he left, right? It won't be a hurtful surprise, I don't imagine. I wish him well, and you too.
First and foremost, thanks for the reply!
It was very hard for me to even bring up the "let's take a break so we can focus on ourselves" convo in the first place. Honestly I was kind of relieved when he was against it. Lol
But I'm trying to be supportive and do the sensible thing (I can't say it's the "right thing" because having the convo doesn't feel right).
I just don't know how to have that conversation again. and maybe I'm just trying to talk about it before he has that talk with me (if and when he does). How do I word it when it's not what my heart wants?