He's working on his recovery and you are going to meetings and reconnecting with friends and family...it sounds like you are both on a good path.
Your path no longer "relies" on him to make it happy and that alone is a wonderful place to be.
Do what feels comfortable for you. Giving it some time and space seems to have been good for both of you. Maybe just limiting contact and keeping boundaries on what is and isn't acceptable in your life, clean or not, will help you take time to decide what you want for the days ahead.
Good luck to both of you.
Hugs