Grumpy cat because she is the ultimate uncodependent, has boundaries of steel and does not care a fig about pleasing people. Basically the antithesis of me prior to recovery. Plus she is adorable.
I change her regularly. The "No We Can't" is a double reminder for me: as an alcoholic I cannot pick up the first drink and as a codie I cannot stop my loved ones from destroying themselves.
No is one of the most useful word in the English language that I got to learn late in life.