There is something very important that I learned from being one of those lying, cheating, stealing addicts/alcoholics...apologies and forgiveness. I have made amends to those that matter and I carry that with me. Sometimes my mouth works before the brain processes the consequences, it is another part of my alcoholic mind/impulsive behavior.
Speaking of, I made a stupid remark the other day and actually called the person today to apologize for my inappropriate sense of humor. They didn't seem to think it was a big deal but it had weighed heavily on me.
Raider, your positive motivation has kept me smiling and in the game sometimes. I think we all have said or thought some things too. If I ever act stupid again, I would liked to be slapped with reality not petted with kitten gloves or Fuzz gloves in your case! I am not the victim, do not pity me, I caused all the pain and suffering in my own life...and then I fixed it all too.
Congratulations on your sober success, you are an amazing woman!!