I am so glad you had a good weekend. If she selfishly wants to keep making this "all about her" then let her, but you don't have to play. You did a wonderful job enjoying Easter and interacting with your family, the fact that she chose to be selfish refects on her, not you.
She'll grow up faster when left to figure things out on her own. She may even get around to her "to do" list...or face the consequences of ignoring it. That's all part of growing up and better late than never.
Hugs from this mama's heart to yours.