My situation is so close to what you are living through. I thought I was the only one in this kind of a mess. My AD had been sober for 60 days. Then I could tell she was drinking some every day. Now she has been passed out for over 24 hours. I don't know if she will even be fit to go to work tomorrow. My 18 year old GS lives with us. My 7 year old GS and 6 year old GD are living with their father. They want to live with their mom, but I do not know if that can ever happen.
You are an inspiration to me. If my daughter loses her job due to her drinking, I told myself I would ask her to leave. I hope I will be strong enough to follow through if it comes down to that.