I know what you're saying about "recoveryism" - however, I can't go there. I don't want a war with her, I'm sick of fighting, but I'm also sick of just sucking it up, smiling, and feeling inside like I want to yell. Know what I'm saying?
I *do* want to find some way for her to feel I'm supporting her, but for @*!!##?! sake she's making it extremely difficult.
Is it possible for a "mixed marriage" to work? She's AA, I'm Lifering. For that matter, I'm a carnivore, she's a vegetarian. I'm a libertarian, she's a socialist (self-described). Are we screwed?
-DrS