Originally Posted by
chicory 
Thanks for posting this , Littlesister1. I get that from my son, who I believe is an alcoholic. I am looking for an al-anon meeting in my area.
I know how it feels to realize that they have been gone for a long time...
good luck to you. and I hope your brother gets well.
hugs,
chicory
Thank you so much!
I can't tell you how much I have already been helped by A)This place and B)Al Anon
I barely know the people there but they "Get it"
So sorry about your son, it is so heartbreaking.
My mama used to blame herself about my brother and before she passed she asked me to look after him. I had to talk to her last night and tell her "Ma, I can't do this anymore, noone can help T, please understand"
And afterwards I was able to sleep quite well.
This is such a strange process, I am welcome to the changes but oh my...........