Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
I am so sorry. Stop trying to figure out why and start figuring out what you can do for you to bring peace and happiness in your life. If any one of us could figure out the substance abuser we would not be on here. What we can figure out is ourselves, our needs, our own triggers. We can figure out what can bring us peace, serenity, and happiness. All things you deserve!
So true. It is a huge waste of time to try and figure it out. I did it for years. Now I try to redirect my thoughts. I have to force myself to think about something else.
Kari