Originally Posted by
Dee74 
As for other people knowing or not, Captain, I think the only person who needs to know in order for change to occur is us.
If we make our recovery dependent on other people, I think not only are we putting a lot of responsibility onto someone else for what needs to be be our job, but we also leave ourselves an 'out' should that person 'fail us'.
D
Yes, absolutely true.
Being held accountable by a husband/wife might help considerably in the early days and months, but I know for me it would not have lasted. I had to do it for me, no question.