Originally Posted by
readerbaby71 
What exactly are you trying to "teach" gracielou? Everyone works their program in different ways. Knowitallism is NOT attractive nor is it appropriate to tell someone that what they're getting out of the program is wrong. This is the kind of preachy, rigid, BS that scares people away from 12 step programs.
Clarification and truth in the matter is doesn't have to be taken as preachy or rigid.
GracieLou and I were talking about the program of Alcoholics Anonymous. Unless you have read this book, it may be difficult to understand what we are talking about.
I never said what anyone is getting out of the program was wrong. You said that. I was pointing out the truth from an AA standpoint when I heard false ideas.
There is no harm done in discovering truth.
Sorry you got upset. No harm meant by me, for sure.