TigerL, that is what I am concerned about. And bc I have a very open relationship w my kids, I don't even know how that would work.
CP, I am so sorry about your loss. I told my husband today(he's just learning that he's married to an alcoholic and handling it famously, I might add) that I think I've struggled with alcohol my whole life. I've never had a healthy relationship with it. But it's been like a wolf at the door. After we lost our baby boy, it's like the wolf finally got in. So sucks. 9 days sober today