Thank you all. I started the process of disconnecting. I sent this last night, and have not heard a word back. I don't even know what I am expecting as a response back...but nothing yet...This is what I sent him:
You know I love you, but I have been doing a bit of thinking. When we go back together, you said you would just drink socially, but you have continued your drinking during the work week when I am with you, and even when I am not. I have not brought the drinking subject up in over three weeks because I have been watching things unfold. You were not true to your word, why?
I just want to see if he will respond...but my next step will be to breakup and disengage all together.