Gosh...I get what everyone is saying, but I still don't know how to leave someone who is so nice to me. I mean, should I just say "no drinking, or no us"? I still don't know how to break free. I don't want to hurt him even though I know he is hurting us. Yes, we have had numerous conversations about his drinking. He said he was going to just drink socially, then it slowly creeped in again. I need a game plan, and I don't know how to figure it out. Seriously, I am otherwise a smart girl, Who normally is not afraid to speak my mind. He has this hold on me that is ridiculous.