Originally Posted by
lilac0721 
I know that when I am sober all sorts of concerns about my marriage, career direction, and finances come up. Staying numb or semi-numb helps me to ignore finding out who I really am and what I really want and deserve.
This pretty much was me for the last 10 years. It was easier to stay numb than face reality. Or so I thought. So I totally understand what you're going through right now - I'm right there with you.
Except for the husband drinking part. I personally wouldn't have the patience for that. I cannot STAND to be around anyone that's drunk when I'm sober. Never have, never will.
The important thing is to continue to work on YOU. (Can you please remind me of this from time to time as well?)
Hope you have a great day!
